I might have an impending goodbye to do by Friday. I really dont want to do it.
I fell in serious like with the wrong guy. Totally wrong for me, totally not what I deserved. Its a mini affair that has been happening for about a year but we have known eachother for a good few years.... Every once and a while we meet up and hook up. Kinda like in between relationship buddies...
But in the last few months since Jack started backing off to "live the single life" I started to think, maybe the reason I kept going back, was because I cared for him more than a friend.
We discussed it a few weeks ago and he basically shot me down, relationship wise. So I ended the mini fling and hence my last post about men and moving on blah blah blah....
He is moving away, leaving Ireland and could be gone for a few years, he might not come back at all. I am heart broken. I knew that we would never end up together, he was everything I shouldn't be with. But I care deeply for him.
I can't meet him to say Goodbye because I know that I will cry and shout at him and then make a complete show of myself. I dont want the potentially last time I see him to be like that. So I have an internal fight between my heart and my head. Do I meet him and possibly make myself feel worse, or do I say farewell by text, keeping my dignity and tears?
I dont know what to do but I know that I hate Goodbyes and my heart is once again a mess.
TwentySomething x
I fell in serious like with the wrong guy. Totally wrong for me, totally not what I deserved. Its a mini affair that has been happening for about a year but we have known eachother for a good few years.... Every once and a while we meet up and hook up. Kinda like in between relationship buddies...
But in the last few months since Jack started backing off to "live the single life" I started to think, maybe the reason I kept going back, was because I cared for him more than a friend.
We discussed it a few weeks ago and he basically shot me down, relationship wise. So I ended the mini fling and hence my last post about men and moving on blah blah blah....
He is moving away, leaving Ireland and could be gone for a few years, he might not come back at all. I am heart broken. I knew that we would never end up together, he was everything I shouldn't be with. But I care deeply for him.
I can't meet him to say Goodbye because I know that I will cry and shout at him and then make a complete show of myself. I dont want the potentially last time I see him to be like that. So I have an internal fight between my heart and my head. Do I meet him and possibly make myself feel worse, or do I say farewell by text, keeping my dignity and tears?
I dont know what to do but I know that I hate Goodbyes and my heart is once again a mess.
TwentySomething x
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